When I found out that I was pregnant I had a sense of elation but also fear, a fear of the unknown, especially labour and how I would cope with motherhood.

My mum suggested that I look into having an independent midwife. As soon as I spoke to Amelia on the phone, I knew that she was the one for me! This was confirmed at our first meeting where she not only put my mind at ease but my husband Simon’s too.

I found Amelia supportive at all times during my pregnancy, especially during the first few months when I was suffering from constant sickness. She was always available on the phone for advice and support any time, day or night.

We both found the antenatal visits and discussions at home to be far more than just convenient. Throughout the pregnancy, Amelia became more than my mid-wife, more like a friend.

I was very nervous about the labour but Amelia’s calm persona helped to keep Simon and I calm. I requested an Induction of Labour as I was overdue. When it was confirmed that I was in Labour, Amelia was there and didn’t leave my side until I’d been changed and settled after Aaron’s safe arrival. Due to the pressure put on the hospital staff, having Amelia by my side kept me calm and reassured that everything was going well and made the whole experience a pleasurable one rather than a terrifying one. I would never contemplate doing it again without her being there.

The care didn’t stop once Aaron was born. Amelia visited the following morning in hospital to make sure that we both had a good night and that all was well. Once home her care continued and the advice we were given was practical and very helpful – as my mum always said to me, the placenta follows the baby not a guide book, so having Amelia either visiting or at the end of the phone was invaluable in the early days. I believe her support and friendship prevented the onset of post-natal depression.

Having had Amelia as my independent midwife for my pregnancy, labour and home-care I would not consider having another baby unless I knew she would be there by my side again.